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How to break out of autopilot and create the life you want | Graham Weaver (Stanford GSB professor, founder of Alpine Investors)

16 Jan 2025 19 published claims 2 attributable people

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01 / recommendation

Likes Untethered Soul. Likes Don't Believe Everything You Think. Mentions personal use of How to Win Friends and Influence People.

“So in the realm of a lot of the topics we've been talking about, which is your internal and external game, I love the book Untethered Soul. And I love the book, Don't Believe Everything You Think. They have very similar themes, but they come at it differently. But I think both of those will really change your perspective if you read them. And then a very, very practical book that's probably the book I've read more than any other book, is How to Win Friends and Influence People, by Dale Carnegie, which was written in like 1930. There's no other book it. There's a reason that people are still recommending it 100 years after it's written. So it's definitely worth checking out.”
Speaker
Graham Weaver
Publisher
Lenny's Podcast

02 / belief

You mentioned this idea of limiting beliefs. And I think a lot of people listening to this are probably having these beliefs right now of, "Okay, but I have a family to support.

“You mentioned this idea of limiting beliefs. And I think a lot of people listening to this are probably having these beliefs right now of, "Okay, but I have a family to support.”
Speaker
Lenny Rachitsky
Publisher
Lenny's Podcast

05 / belief

First I was an engineer, then I became a founder, then I was a PM, and now I do whatever the heck this is. And I think people don't realize that's how life often goes.

“First I was an engineer, then I became a founder, then I was a PM, and now I do whatever the heck this is. And I think people don't realize that's how life often goes.”
Speaker
Lenny Rachitsky
Publisher
Lenny's Podcast

07 / belief

I think we're going to be helping a lot of people with what they want to do with their lives, and if nothing else, give them a little opportunity to break out of autopilot, at least for a little bit.

“I think we're going to be helping a lot of people with what they want to do with their lives, and if nothing else, give them a little opportunity to break out of autopilot, at least for a little bit.”
Speaker
Lenny Rachitsky
Publisher
Lenny's Podcast

08 / belief

A big part of that, by the way, is media, our friends, our parents, our boss, our coworkers, what we think we're supposed to do, social media: "This is cool, buy this Ferrari," all these different things.

“A big part of that, by the way, is media, our friends, our parents, our boss, our coworkers, what we think we're supposed to do, social media: "This is cool, buy this Ferrari," all these different things.”
Speaker
Graham Weaver
Publisher
Lenny's Podcast

09 / uncertainty

I don't know if you have kids or how old they are, but when you get kids in school in Marin, you see parents, they try to clear all obstacles away from their kids.

“I don't know if you have kids or how old they are, but when you get kids in school in Marin, you see parents, they try to clear all obstacles away from their kids.”
Speaker
Graham Weaver
Publisher
Lenny's Podcast

10 / observation

You think, "Oh, I'll be so happy once I achieve this thing." And I think an example of this is there's a lot of miserable billionaires, from what I've read and see.

“You think, "Oh, I'll be so happy once I achieve this thing." And I think an example of this is there's a lot of miserable billionaires, from what I've read and see.”
Speaker
Lenny Rachitsky
Publisher
Lenny's Podcast

11 / commitment

And I was trying to row crew, and I never row crew before. And I wrote down at the top of the page every single morning, I wrote down, "I am the number one rower in the country.

“And I was trying to row crew, and I never row crew before. And I wrote down at the top of the page every single morning, I wrote down, "I am the number one rower in the country.”
Speaker
Graham Weaver
Publisher
Lenny's Podcast

12 / prediction

Instead, they say, "Not now." And not now, if they're not careful, will turn into not ever, because not now is just really another way of saying, "I'm not going to do it.

“Instead, they say, "Not now." And not now, if they're not careful, will turn into not ever, because not now is just really another way of saying, "I'm not going to do it.”
Speaker
Graham Weaver
Publisher
Lenny's Podcast

13 / preference

The reason I think that's important to say is because if I'm optimizing for tomorrow and I just want to have a great day tomorrow, I'm going to stay exactly where I am, because my life will be better tomorrow if I don't make any changes.

“The reason I think that's important to say is because if I'm optimizing for tomorrow and I just want to have a great day tomorrow, I'm going to stay exactly where I am, because my life will be better tomorrow if I don't make any changes.”
Speaker
Graham Weaver
Publisher
Lenny's Podcast

14 / recommendation

Let's say you have even medically, you're going to have real health problems if you don't do that. I would say you hire yourself a personal trainer, pay what you need to pay.

“Let's say you have even medically, you're going to have real health problems if you don't do that. I would say you hire yourself a personal trainer, pay what you need to pay.”
Speaker
Graham Weaver
Publisher
Lenny's Podcast

15 / preference

Ask instead what makes you come alive, because what the world needs most is for you to come alive." And I think that just talks about it's really about you coming alive that's the most important thing.

“Ask instead what makes you come alive, because what the world needs most is for you to come alive." And I think that just talks about it's really about you coming alive that's the most important thing.”
Speaker
Graham Weaver
Publisher
Lenny's Podcast

16 / evaluation

You have all these skills, that you can make a lot more doing other things." But I just kept doing that, and that's what led me to this life now where I make much, much more than I made as a product manager at Airbnb.

“You have all these skills, that you can make a lot more doing other things." But I just kept doing that, and that's what led me to this life now where I make much, much more than I made as a product manager at Airbnb.”
Speaker
Lenny Rachitsky
Publisher
Lenny's Podcast

17 / evaluation

The first thing I would say about limiting beliefs is they're the most powerful and the most dangerous when you don't even know what they are.

“The first thing I would say about limiting beliefs is they're the most powerful and the most dangerous when you don't even know what they are.”
Speaker
Graham Weaver
Publisher
Lenny's Podcast

18 / recommendation

I have to readjust my class a little bit, and I have to spend some time on the stuff we've just been talking about: finding out what your dream is, your limiting beliefs, starting to map out goals toward your actual entrepreneurship dream or whatever your genie goal is." So the way I say it is the university allows me to teach the class because I teach them entrepreneurial tricks, tactics, tools that will help them become a great CEO.

“I have to readjust my class a little bit, and I have to spend some time on the stuff we've just been talking about: finding out what your dream is, your limiting beliefs, starting to map out goals toward your actual entrepreneurship dream or whatever your genie goal is." So the way I say it is the university allows me to teach the class because I teach them entrepreneurial tricks, tactics, tools that will help them become a great CEO.”
Speaker
Graham Weaver
Publisher
Lenny's Podcast

19 / preference

The other ones, because I kept going and staying with it, turned out to work out well, with a lot of scars and bruises, but the failure would've been quitting.

“The other ones, because I kept going and staying with it, turned out to work out well, with a lot of scars and bruises, but the failure would've been quitting.”
Speaker
Graham Weaver
Publisher
Lenny's Podcast
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