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Carole Robin: belief

25 Apr 2024 Lenny's Podcast How to build deeper, more robust relationships | Carole Robin (Stanford GSB professor, “Touchy Feely”)

“I think stopping and becoming aware of what are the mental models that are driving these choices that I'm making, every behavior has in front of it a choice.”

— Carole Robin

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Carole Robin
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belief
Recorded
25 Apr 2024
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Lenny's Podcast

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…If you zoom out from all of your work and teachings, are there any overarching themes that continue to come up that you think are important for people to take away from this conversation? Well, for starters, we're all works in progress, which means every relationship in your life is a work in progress. Because if I'm a work in progress and you're a work in progress, then by default so is our relationship. And so remembering that what worked with you two years ago may or may not work for you now because we're different people. So I think that's a biggie. I think stopping and becoming aware of what are the mental models that are driving these choices that I'm making, every behavior has in front of it a choice. If we stop long enough to become aware of it and in front of every choice, there's some belief. So I try to march myself back from the result to the behavior, to the choice, to the mental model that drove it or the skill or lack of skill. Something that we didn't talk about at the beginning of this because it might distract people, but you've been dealing with Long COVID for almost two years at this point. Where are you at with it? How are things going and is there anything you've learned from this unexpected part of your life?…

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