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9 Feb 2023 Lenny's Podcast Leading with empathy | Keith Yandell (DoorDash, Uber)
“We can achieve this profitability measure later" or vice versa. And so generating empathy and having empathy for the other side, understanding how they're goaled and what they're bringing to the conversation, I think is the first step to having those really tough conversations.”
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- 9 Feb 2023
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