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Lex Fridman: belief

12 Jul 2025 Lex Fridman Podcast #474 – DHH: Future of Programming, AI, Ruby on Rails, Productivity & Parenting

“Just to pick one, it’s funny that sometimes the advice givers, the wisdom givers have gone through all the bullshit, and so there is a degree to which you want to make the mistake. So I think I would still give the advice of you want to have a stretch of your life, where you work too hard, including anything that fails.”

— Lex Fridman

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Speaker
Lex Fridman
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belief
Recorded
12 Jul 2025
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Lex Fridman Podcast

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…t know. The adventure is to pay off. The responsibility is to pay off. This is something Jordan Peterson has really taught me to articulate. This notion that responsibility is actually key to meaning. Man’s Search for Meaning, Viktor Frankl talks about this as well, that we can endure any hardship if there’s a reason why. Now, he talked about it in truly life altering concentration camp ways, but you can also apply at a smaller scale with less criticality of even just your daily life that all that hardship in building the original business that is responsibility you take upon yourself. The appeal, the reason you take that on you is in part because you don’t know fully what it entails. If you had known upfront, if I had known upfront how hard it would be, how much frustration there’d be along the way, if you just told me that in a narrative before I got started, I would’ve been like, eh, maybe I should just go get a job. You said so many smart things there. Just to pick one, it’s funny that sometimes the advice givers, the wisdom givers have gone through all the bullshit, and so there is a degree to which you want to make the mistake. So I think I would still give the advice of you want to have a stretch of your life, where you work too hard, including anything that fails. I don’t think you can learn the lessons why that’s a bad idea in any other way except by doing it. There is a degree, but of course you don’t… I think you should stretch. Should you have to stretch for a decade? I’m not so sure.…

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